I say both.
Dude, I hate having a sister because I have to carry all their stuff because "They're too weak to do it themselves."
That's some bull.
>.> I dislike asking others to carry stuff for me. Whenever I lift heavy stuff, my dad tries to take it away from me but I get mad, refuse, and then he calls me stubborn. xD
I dislike shopping with my mom (since that usually involves going for stuff like make up 
) but browsing through places like Gamestop is something I don't mind! And now I suddenly find myself looking at clothes more often than when I was little, but I still prefer video games. 
Then again, my behavior, more often than not, is more like a guy instead of a girl. 
But yup, just like they said in that movie one movie, Men may be the heads and think they are in control, but women are the necks and without us, the heads can't move at all. We only let you believe you're in control... 
Thtas a lie mean dont need the "necks" as you put it.
...>_> Man, chill out, it was just a funny metaphor in that movie My Big Fat Greek Wedding. Go spray yourself with Windex.
