Err, well having a *plan* isn't the best to do. That would be treating them like a to-do list. They won't find out but it makes you feel like crap in the end. Me myself love to do things from scratch, all my convos end or will hopefully end the saem way. A few laughs, smiles and a really weird hand shakes dont' ask why.
Looks isn't the factor here, it's personality. Yes that's the corniest line, but hey it works, doesn't it? Vo, you're pretty cool if you let peopel get to know you, you're actually rpetty funny ^_^ Just don't lose hope, if you give up then you'll lose self-esteem and remain single forever @.@
Oh by the by don't buy her things that are just uber expensive, I don't think any girl I've hung out with likes that kind of thing, but that's just me, and no tattoos!