Correct me if I am wrong but...
the rule about how to challenge
1] ºHow to Challenge a Jinchurikiº
In order to challenge a Jinchuriki & obtain a Biju, one must extend an invitation to its host; this places you on the list of challengers that each host must update in a publicly accessibly spot. [Either as a post in this thread or on the wikia as a discussion topic on the tailed beasts page. Here] The two will make all arrangements for when the match will begin and where. Should the Jinchuriki ignore or refuse the invitation(s)-with no reason given- 3 times consecutively, you may report it to other Jinchuriki. Subject for such an event's invitation, for proof & reference of a challenge, must be titled: (Number of tails) - (Name of Jinchuriki); the body of the message may be as you please (though manners & politeness would of course make things much smoother).
...does not say what a valid reason for refusing a challenge is.
I think you are someone else and you are a godmodder does not seem like a valid reason to me.
To me a valid reason would be....
1] you and I can't be in the same room without trying to kill each other....to which you should behave properly and stop being children about it...or maybe give the bijuu to someone who can handle the stress...and as the challenger stop making challenges until you can behave properly as well.
2] I have beat you the last 60 million times we fought, I feel I have proved you can't beat me.
3] You have demonstrated in the past in our fights that you insist upon blatant character control, god modding, ignoring my moves, evading everything under the sun and or metagaming and I am just not going to enter into combat with you again until you learn how to RP properly....and this should be documented not just made up hype over someone you do not like...not witnessed in other fights but experienced first hand.
NOW....
respawning.
I think that if the host is utterly destroyed, as in dust release, that the bijuu is also utterly destroyed and should respawn. I do not feel this is being unfair to those who use dust release. IF there is another jutsu that utterly destroys the host then it too would provoke a respawning.
thoughts on these two issues?